Sometimes we make things matter a hell of a lot more than they should.
At closer look, it really can just be what it is and that’s it.
We need to understand that not every thing we encounter or participate in will be life changing. Sometimes it is just one single experience. It doesn’t always have to mean something so exponential. Listen to me, I am the queen of this-guilty as charged, repeat OFFENDER. Get out of your own head! Many things are neither good nor bad, but thought makes them so. When we ruminate we might be making something matter a lot more than it should. Try to catch yourself in the act. Your brain is busy- don’t rent that thought so much space 😉
Each day has enough trouble of its own.”
Do yourself a favor, try not to overanalyze. Let it be what it will be.
Trust your gut and act according to your intuition.
It will either matter or it won’t, only time will reveal which it becomes.